Internet Dating Rules for MEN

HEY Guys out there!  I am finding that many of you really love our great big bodies. The rolls, the skin slapping, burying your face between our big thick thighs... My question to you is... Is this a fetish that you want to indulge or are you seriously interested in a relationship with a SS woman? We have issues you need to be ready for, things you can easily prevent. So, here's a little advice. I hope you don't find me too forward or bossy or negative, (all of which I have been accused of). I am just being realistic and honest.  And trying to help all my Supersized sisters out there too, and myself as well. 

1.    If you want to make a fat girl weak in the knees, give her attention. Talk to her, tell her how you feel about anything, listen to her, more than likely she will want to hear all about who you are. Be open, if you aren't open to this process, what are you doing here? We are all vulnerable in this development. You don’t have to download your life, or vomit your shit all over her, but share something simple. Maybe how you feel about relationships. What your fantasy is for your future. I don’t know, something personal. Show her a small piece of you, test her out, see if she gets you.

2.    Keep your dick out of it for a minute. Do you really like this girl? What are you looking for with her? Does she understand if you are only looking for a good fuck? Be clear on your intentions. Don’t lie to her or to yourself so you can get your cock wet, come on. Have a little self-respect and give the girl some too. And please remember, women get their feeling involved when they fuck. Its not just fucking, no matter what they say, well I guess there are rare ones out there. But not usually. 

3.    More than likely your fat girl has been hurt, ridiculed and poked fun at in her life. Don't ask her for naked pics, the first thing I think of when asked for this is,  "what are you going to do with them?" Social media is great on one hand shitty on the other. I do not want my fat body exposed to the general populace and made fun of, or be found on a NO FAT GIRLS meme or bumper sticker. I don't know you well enough to trust you with something like that. Don't ask. There are girls who will offer I'm sure, God bless them and I hope you don't end up on some other website somewhere. 

4.    Consistency. If you come on strong and speak every day, send emails every morning. Call every night at 7, don't just back off all of a sudden. Setting a precedent is a bad thing if you are incapable of continuing. Don't you know every night at 630 she will be waiting, watching the clock patiently to see if you call. 710 she is disappointed, but still waiting. 730 she is probably angry, she knows it’s unreasonable, she won't say much about it if you do call, it’s a defense mechanism. By 8 she is questioning herself. She is going through her mind over and over your last conversations and what she could have said wrong. Or that she admitted to something you found unfavorable, and now it’s over and you are never going to call again. By 9 she is devastated and eating a bowl of ice cream to soothe her disappointment and hurt feelings.  By 10 she has sent you an emoji, “Just missing you”, which you did not get because you probably just went out with a friend, had a few beers and came home and fell asleep. FUCK, just tell her hello. That you are thinking of her. Whatever, something so she doesn't put herself through all of that fucked up insecure shit we go through. It's perfectly okay to find a way to say, hey thinking of you, but working can't talk. Just thought I would let you know... something to let her know you dont want to have an entire discussion on the matter.

5.    And last but not least!  Grow a pair, please. If there is something wrong or something that comes up or you just don’t like her for some reason. Maybe you met someone different that is better. Whatever the case may be, we are not fucking children. Just say so, let her off the hook, throw her back. Don’t just leave her gasping for air flopping on the shoreline because you weren’t man enough to say… Hey its over. She needs to be able to lick her wounds and move on. NOT telling her might make you feel better, asshole. But she is still wondering, questioning, is he just needing some space and he’ll contact me next week. See number 3 again, same kind of shit. You can do it in email, you can text her, whatever. You don’t have to face her to do it. You don’t have to look at her eyes as they tear up, but you do need to tell her something. And be clear, do not say ambiguous unclear statements like: "Well I just need some time to sort things out…" to a girl, that means… “I just need a few weeks, hang on and I will be back.”  Just tell her… Hey, I really am sorry, but this isn’t working for me. I think its time for both of us to move on.

6.    Ok last one, for real this time. If you do all that and break up with her… for god’s sake don’t go back and sleep with her unless you have every intention of staying with her this time. You don’t get to go back and get some good lovin’ and run away again. Just go find some other willing one night stander… leave her heart alone!



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