ShaunaMarie's Ramblings

It's been awhile since I updated you on the dating front... well there's not much to say really. The married man is gone, his lame excuse... "You are just too far away." Ok, got the hint, "You just aren't worth the effort." Loud and clear! Met Tall guy. Actually in person. Very nice guy, very very nice. I think too nice really, for me. I am a rotten sexual being and he is... a little sexually repressed I think?  Have no idea with this one, he was falling in love one day, wanting to be the best boyfriend I ever had and dumped me the next (well a few days later. It all happened in the course of a couple of weeks... What the hell is it with me? Again, I would say to the guys out there: Be honest. Be open. We are adults not children. If you can't handle breaking it off with someone with some honesty, then don't date. Maybe its a misunderstanding, miscommunication. After all you are both new to each other. Fuck, give it at least a conversation...

We talk so much about what a woman needs to be arroused and think that men are perfectly happy with his penis being sucked or touched, that we forget, he has an entire body of erogenous zones to explore. 1.        First… don’t even touch his penis. That’s the first rule. 2.        Blindfold him, it makes this so much more sensual. He has no idea where you’ll be next. 3.        I use a nice oil. Light Sesame Body Oil by Neutrogena is very nice, it soaks in well. Oil your hands often enough to keep your movements sliding easily over his muscles. Use the pads of your fingers, your palms, or your whole forearms for large areas. Never use fingertips, they poke and hurt. Leave elbows out of it for the same reason. You want this to be firm sensual pressure. Slow and mesmerizing. Make him feel like you have all day to focus on him and his needs. 4.        Start ...