Erogenous Zones For Your Man

We talk so much about what a woman needs to be arroused and think that men are perfectly happy with his penis being sucked or touched, that we forget, he has an entire body of erogenous zones to explore.

1.       First… don’t even touch his penis. That’s the first rule.

2.       Blindfold him, it makes this so much more sensual. He has no idea where you’ll be next.

3.       I use a nice oil. Light Sesame Body Oil by Neutrogena is very nice, it soaks in well. Oil your hands often enough to keep your movements sliding easily over his muscles. Use the pads of your fingers, your palms, or your whole forearms for large areas. Never use fingertips, they poke and hurt. Leave elbows out of it for the same reason. You want this to be firm sensual pressure. Slow and mesmerizing. Make him feel like you have all day to focus on him and his needs.

4.       Start with a scalp massage. Run your fingers through his hair grab a handful and tug gently, watch him moan. If he likes, lightly scratch his head with your nails.

5.       Massage behind the ears and down the back of the neck. Press your thumbs firmly down the sides of his neck.

6.       Now take your thumbs and massage his face. Under the cheek bones, between the eyebrows, his temples, firm pressure with the pads of your fingers. Follow up with a few light kisses on his cheeks. A little teeth pressure on his ear lobes can drive a man crazy.

7.       Massage the jaws and lips walk your fingers gently up and down his strong jaw and trace his lips with your finger tip and follow it with your tongue. Work your way down his neck and clavicle.

8.       If your man has hair on his chest, lightly run your hands over it, barely touching the hair itself. Like you did with his hair, grab a handful and gently tug on it. It wakes up the nerve endings.

9.       Run a finger lightly around his areola, the dark part around his nipple. See how it pebbles like ours do? Pinch his nipples gently ladies. All of this is gently. You can lick them, suck them, nip at them with your teeth. See how much he likes it. If he is very responsive, continue. Massage his chest and belly with long strokes back and forth.

10.    Spread his legs, sit between his legs, facing him, with his legs over yours. I’m positive he is standing at attention by now. Massage his abdomen, run your hands firmly over his bladder area at the base of his penis, but not the penis. Some men have a little fat pad on their pubic area, massage that too. Its very sensitive.

11.    Slide your hands down his inner thighs. Spread his legs further, massage long strokes up and down his thighs. Cup his buns squeeze gently massaging that big muscle. With your hands cupping his ass slid your thumbs up the perineum, that spot between his asshole and the bottom of his scrotum. Men love that area massages. If you have a man who enjoys butt play (or not try it on him), with more oil on your hands massage his rim gently. About two inches inside you will find the prostate gland, it feels like a walnut. Massage that area while you take him into your mouth for the best blow job he’s ever had.

I really hope you have fun exploring your man’s body’s. Finding new places he loves being touched. Talk to him quietly, if he’s open to this. Some men enjoy the silence. I would touch base with him about half way through if he doesn’t say anything before.

One interesting variation you can have him on his knees, butt in the air while you massage his butt and perineum, down his thighs behind his knees and onto his feet. Use you tongue on his scrotum, his butthole. If you do go inside with fingers use plenty of oils or lubrication of some kind to avoid pain. This can be a very pleasurable experience for both of you if its done slow and easy.

Enjoy, let me know how it goes, what you learned.